Saturday, October 18, 2014

40 before 40

 I wrote this blog post back in October of 2010.  Looking at it today I realized that I had things I was able to cross off my list.  Yay me!!......

I've been inspired by this blogger. A list of forty things she's always wanted to do before she gets to be 40.  There are some majorly cool things on her list.  I don't think I will ever be as cool.  But it made me wonder what might be on my list that I've always wanted to do (and some that I have already done) ...

#1...Sandals Montego Bay Jamaica
1. Renew my vows on a beach in Jamaica where we honeymooned.

2. Karioke... 'nough said.

3. Take part in a fund raising walk for Sjogren's Syndrome. 

4. Get a tattoo that I've designed myself.

5. Sit in a pub in Ireland.

6. Finish a will.   edited--We finished one right before our trip!

7. Move into a new house.  One that has everything that we want.

8. Go to the beach with both sets of Grandparents.

9. Go on vacation out of the country.

10. Attend a black tie event.

11. Get a passport.

12. Take my daughter to Disneyworld and Universal Studios.   edited--And now we're headed back again sometime in December!

13. Become a better listener.

14. Be a "cool mom".    edited--Or at least I was for a brief moment in time!

15. Have professional family pictures taken.  edited-- And my husband even lived to tell the tale!

16. Rescue a dog.

17. Rescue a cat.

18. Take a romantic walk in the rain with my husband.

19. Go to Niagara Falls.

20. Take L to Niagara Falls.

21. Drop L off at preschool and not cry until I've left. 

#23.... Found in Utah.  Which would also satisfy # 35!

22. Same goes for kindergarten.

23. Sleep in a hotel room with no roof.

24. Be brave enough to try sushi.

25. Find some AMAZING friends who "get me".

26. Accept my limitations better.  edited--I have worked SUPER hard at this one. Though, I still have moments when I struggle with it I think I have come to a better understanding of my limits. Even though I may not always like them.

27. Decide if we're done having kids.

28. Become a mom.

29. Volunteer in L's preschool class.

30. Feel empowered.

31. Visit New England again.  edited--My hubbster and I managed to get a whole week away in New England to celebrate our ten year anniversary. Now we desperately want to get back there!

32. Go on a trip with just my girlfriends.

33. Take a vacation with just my mom.

34. See a musical on Broadway.

35. Visit my 20th state. (At 19 now.)  edited--Thanks to our New England trip I am not at 21 states thanks to Rhode Island and Maine!

36. Fly first class.

37. Become more confidant.

38. Finish an awesome devotional book.

39. Walk in the French Quarter in New Orleans.

40.Do some freelance photo editing work.

I officially now have six years. Only 16 more to go!!! And of course I know that there's probably NO WAY that I will actually accomplish all of these. A girl can wish! I'll be crossing things off as I go.

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Patience and Pain

I'm discovering, or maybe rediscovering, that it's hard to have both pain and patience. The last weeks (since school started and I went back to work) have been rough on me. High pain and low energy levels, while working, don't leave much room for patience with my kiddo. Which is super frustrating for me as I know it's not fair to L, which adds a healthy dose of Mommy guilt to the whole situation. I feel a little as if I am coming unglued at the seems right now trying to stay on top of everything, while attempting to push my pain down, and still be the "same ol' mom" to my girly. Parenting is hard on a normal basis. Parenting with a chronic illness can be brutal.

Perhaps I need to learn something from what L wrote to me recently...

"I'm so sad about missing all the memories [we've made this summer]. But I just realized when I was writing the letter, you don't realize the memories your having right now. So I learned that you appreciate what is happen[ing] right now and think about those memories while you [are] have[ing] them."

I guess I need to let go of my fear of letting things slip, try to look through the pain, and just be in the moment. And remember to "appreciate what is happening right now". My girly. Such a smartie for an eight year old!!

Sunday, September 14, 2014

Cheater Style

We have a family reunion, happening today, that we have to bring a side dish or dessert to. My exhaustion from the work week isn't gone yet so I've decided to cheat. And I'm sharing it with you should you need to find a dish to bring when you're short on energy!

Step 1... Buy a box of cookies, freshly made, from the store.

Step 2... Buy a tinfoil baking dish in the "baking isle" of the store.

Step 3... Arrange the cookies lovingly into the container. And now, it looks like you spent all day making cookies for family when in reality you've only spent minutes arranging them! And that's how you "bake cookies" cheater style.


Monday, August 25, 2014


I may be taking some blogging time off in the next few weeks. I am not certain how much I'll be able to blog, since I am headed back to work, now that school has started back up. Here's hoping I am not as exhausted as I am preparing for!

Thursday, August 21, 2014


 We're just getting settled back in from a long weekend of camping. We've got one more week to enjoy summer vacation before we start school again. L will be learning and I will be back in the
 cafeteria working. So I figured I'd share just a few pics from our fun weekend...

Monday, August 18, 2014

Sjoggie Summer Accessory

I recently found this hat, on clearance, and have fallen in love with it! Perfect Sjoggie summer accessory, don't you think??

Friday, August 15, 2014

Hydro Flask

I am in LOVE with my new water bottle! I plugged in a search for "insulated water bottles" into Google and showed up.  I read about a zillion reviews online for the hydro flasks and decided I had to have one for myself.

I chose the 18oz bottle and I've been using it for a little while. I recently took it to the beach and it worked wonderfully! I love that it didn't leak even when it accidentally got turned upside down in our beach bag. Yesterday, I carried it around outside in eighty-nine degree weather. The ice never melted and I had freezing cold water all day. Lov-ing it!

The only negative I could come up with is that I wish that I had gotten a bigger size. Since I drink so much water I find myself filling it up quite a lot. However, I feel like that is worth it to have ice "stick around" in my water bottle for two days straight!
 I'm fairly certain that I will be carrying this water bottle with me when I go to Disney World later this year.

You can buy your own hydro flask, on their website, with various sizes and lids to choose from.

**DISCLAIMER** I was not compensated, in any way, for writing this blog post. I'm just in love with this product and thought all my Sjoggie friends would like the recommendation.